Shadow Work
A Therapy for Ours
Shadows as manifested by the always presence of residual Pollyannaism (a
Delusional System of some kind) - one main expressive style of those that are
unenlightened (ignorance), those that are
insightless to the existence of their shadow.
Enhances: Wholeness
Balances/Counters Balances:
Pollyannaism and Projections
The Basic Practice
The spiritual practice of shadow
encourages us to make peace with those parts of ourselves that we find to be
despicable, unworthy, and embarrassing — our anger, jealousy, pride,
selfishness, violence, and other "evil deeds." In Christianity,
shadow aspects are the seven deadly sins. Moslems talk about nafs as our lower
selves, and Buddhists refer to negative emanations of mind.
This practice aims at wholeness by
unifying the dark and the light inside and around us. Start by looking closely
at yourself, especially your flaws. Take responsibility for your actions,
especially those that have had unfortunate outcomes. By owning your shadow, you
embrace your full humanity.
Shadow
is a corrective to any tendency to make spirituality into simplistic feelings
of sweetness and light; it balances Pollyanna thinking. People do terrible
things to each other, sometimes because of their beliefs and in the name of
their religion. Individuals, even those who are deeply spiritual, go through
dark nights of the soul when depression and not-knowing take on terrifying
dimensions.
By honestly acknowledging these aspects of
life, we move toward a more rounded view of reality and build the foundation
for personal wholeness.
The spiritual practice of shadow is also called for when we discover that we
are projecting aspects of ourselves onto others — both our negative qualities
and our untapped talents and powers. The latter are "golden shadows,"
our (our idealization defenses, our idolatry) nobler aspects that we tend to
attribute to teachers, celebrities, sports superstars, and national heroes we
admire. Practicing shadow means you reclaim all your flaws and gifts, accepting
yourself in all your complexity.
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